If you can, try to stay in one of the four most populous Dutch cities: Amsterdam, Rotterdam, The Hague and Utrecht.These cities are where the singles tend to congregate and will give you the highest chance for dating success.Being a seasoned expat for the past 6 years now, I’ve gained some .Some of the mistakes I made are long-lasting and quite irreparable.Without further ado, here is the quick list of the top two dating sites in the Netherlands. As a Meetic network member, Lexa has the same polished website and solid features as Match.com, Dating Direct, and other Meetic sites.A premium membership is needed to do anything on the site beyond browsing/searching members.Foreigners may interpret this as rude, as they’re used to be very polite and would even tell a white lie to not insult or hurt someone.
A woman who has only one picture posted, is wearing a form-fitting outfit and making an overly suggestive pose are usually clear signals to steer clear.We’ll tell you whether we want to hang out or not, when we’re hungry, how funny your hair looks today, if you’re a good kisser… So don’t be taken aback when a girl is saying something you might interpret as rude: she’s just being honest with you. Imagine you’ve been on a great date, having drinks in a café or bar, and then it’s time to pay. I know many Dutch girls who believe that the guy should pay on the first date. But don’t be surprised when the girl offers to split the bill, especially on the second/third/fourth date.These girls want to be independant and want to show you that they can pay for their own drinks or meal.I can already hear my Mum telling me to "never say never" but since living in Amsterdam I've come to the conclusion that Dutch men just aren't my thing.I do have male Dutch friends and I think they're great; they're just not someone I will ever date.